Dia de Los Muertos Altar for Lencho and Ester Flores

9 Nov

I had the opportunity to participate in the Dia de Los Muertos exhibit at Palm Springs Art museum again. This year, it was at their beautiful new satellite location in Palm Desert.

The altar was in honor of my grandparents. It was a family effort, con mucho amor!

Florencio “Lencho” Moreno Flores (1924-2004)

Maria Ester Ochoa Flores (1928-1998)

They were both born and raised in La Sara, Texas. They were married on August 6, 1947. They enjoyed over 50 years together.

Long-time residents of Indio,CA, they settled in the Coachella Valley in the early 50’s.

Rancho Las Flores, Thermal, CA 1980. That’s me as a baby.

Lencho was employed in farm labor and agriculture from an early age. He was known for his friendly warm smile, generous hospitality, compassionate heart and optimistic outlook. He was a supporter of the labor union movement in the 1960’s and of Cesar Chavez. He was very patriotic and extremely proud of his sons and daughter who served in the military. Above all, he was a spiritual man and a devout Catholic; serving his church and all the community through prayers and songs.

Making buñelos, early 1990’s

Ester was a farm laborer as well. Later, she became a full-time homemaker and mother. She only had a third-grade education and knew very little English, but she was blessed with a sharp mind and an uncanny ability to stretch a dollar a long way. She managed the household expenses and the family savings with an iron fist; yet she generously always had a place in their home for extended family and traveling friends to stay.

She was a devout Catholic and very spiritual as well. Privately, she practiced traditional healings of the indigenous people of north Mexico & Texas, and was respected for her teas and powerful prayers. It’s no accident that two of their daughters are nurses and another daughter and son are mental health professionals.

Lencho and Ester had 6 children, 15 grandchildren, and 4 great-grandchildren. We love and miss them!

My dad and his dad. Thermal, CA. 1979

Making the Altar…

Me and my Mom, installation day.

Fully assembled & lit for the evening’s festivities.

About the altar:

  • Photos of their farming days create a path to the steps, representing the transition from their earthly life of hard work and toil in the sun to a celebration of their transcendence to Heaven, where they are happy souls reunited and free.
  • Ester loved roses and the color pink. After their passing, the family remodeled their home. Twice the house was painted beige and twice the paint mysteriously dried pink.

Their wedding picture in the background…

  • The lovingly created central figures (above) were made by their son, my tio, Florencio ‘Jayar’ Flores.

  • The molcajete and comal, (cooking instruments), were Ester’s. Her fantastic Tex-Mex cooking is dearly missed. The plastic fruit bowl and doilies were hers as well.

  • I designed and cut the papel picado with lyrics from one of Lencho’s favorite songs, De Colores.

  • The paper flowers were made by their great-granddaughter, my daughter, Bella, age 13.
  • The wooden plaque, “La Familia Flores”, hung over their front door. It now hangs at my parents’ home.

Final daytime view.

The saddest part is always taking the altar down. All the physical pieces are put away and we are again left with the memory of our loved ones. I cheered myself up with the knowledge that my daughter now knows her abuela’s face and got to hear many stories of her life over the course of working on this project. Her memory lives on!

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2 Responses to “Dia de Los Muertos Altar for Lencho and Ester Flores”

  1. Amy Lawrence November 10, 2012 at 1:06 am #

    I am so blessed to know such a beautiful family. The alter you created was amazing and I could never expect anything but that from you my dear friend. Our connection runs deep…we come from different paths yet many pieces in our lives are similar. I am so glad that Bella had an opportunity to hear all of those stories and her marigolds were incredible. Made with love! The pictures, the representations, and the memories made your alter brighter than any other I have ever seen. I am so glad that we are still in touch over all these years! Interesting note: my grandmother passed in 1998 also and her favorite color was purple and favorite flower was lilac. I so wish that our grandmothers could have met and seen, for even just a bit, the beautiful children that we have now. Love you dearly…your friend always…Amy.

    • Ay Mujer shop November 10, 2012 at 10:09 am #

      Girl, I’m tearing up here! Thank you for this. I wish they could have met our children, too. But really, they are a part of them already and I believe they have met in spirit and will again. I love you, dear friend.

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